Agreed. You have an outlook similar to mine: we all have needs, we evaluate potential partners (consciously or not), and we make choices based on those needs and evaluations. Male and females alike.

It might sound unromantic, but that how it works.

I admit you sound way more rational and pragmatic than many feminists around ;-) (and I mean this in the most positive sense).

In my experience, most feminists are excessively emotional, one-sided or idealistic.