> "Any guy who hangs around for the games either has no self-esteem or is playing those same games with six other women."

Oh so true!

A truly good or high quality man tires of those games quickly. OTOH, a "player" is obsessed about "scoring" and it devotes lots of energy into it.

The women who say "I'm playing 'hard to get', to screen the players and losers" have got it backward: playing hard to get makes good men run away, and leaves only the players (they enjoy the chase) and the losers (they don't have self-esteem, so they endure anything).