As soon as you hear the word "patriarchy", assess whether hysterical stereotypes and/or blind ideology have overcome any rational discourse.

Almost always the answer is YES. ;-P

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BTW, you're wrong for the simple reason that you always assume the woman is right and the man is wrong (yeah, that's feminism's "equality" at its best). Thank God most therapists are not that prejudiced; reality is always more nuanced.