Valter Psicofelicità
1 min readMay 1, 2024

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Excellent advice - as usual. :-)

To anybody worrying about porn usage, I'd say this: porn is a bit like alcohol.

1. Both are natural, and have always been used. Porn images have existed for millennia; even animals indulge in alcohol, when they find it in nature. So learn to deal with it: it's not going away, ever.

2. Just as with alcohol, porn usage can be healthy or harmful depending on quantity: a bit is fine, a lot could be a problem, an awful lot is definitely harmful.

3. How much is too much? As the Dr. says - be it alcohol or porn - if it impairs one's ability to live one's life, then it's too much. Therefore, it's personal and there's no universal guideline (and no, your Church or pastor has no definite say on this ;-).

Lastly, if you have strong negative reactions or feelings towards porn, try to see it as YOUR issue: ponder why and where does it come from, and maybe seek counseling. Remember: you're not the General Manager of the Universe ;-) and the desire to control others is usually unhealthy.

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Valter Psicofelicità
Valter Psicofelicità

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