First, thank for your honesty. :-)

Although I don't think all of what you say is true (we're all different, after all), a good chunk of it is - despite many women, and most feminists, denying it.

> "In a world where excitement trumps empathy, Jack’s thoughtfulness is nothing more than background noise."

... or, Jack is soon forgotten because of the next exciting thing or man.

> "Women say they want respect and kindness, and maybe they think they do. But actions speak louder than words."

Women appreciate kindness, but they want it from sexy, exciting men. Kindness from a not-exciting man is invisible. Of course they never admit this.

> "Let’s not mince words: women crave excitement."

Amen to that.

What most women call "love" is actually "falling in love": excitement, attraction, "butterflies" and so on.

"Nice guys" lose not because they are nice, but because they aren't exciting.

> "Society loves to sell the fantasy of the gentleman"

Well, it somehow worked decades ago. It doesn't now... but many haven't got the memo.

> " “Why are all men the same?” they ask, conveniently forgetting the countless Jacks they overlooked"

100% this.

Thanks again, and kudos.

BTW, most of what you say is what the Red Pill is about: talking realistically about relationships, instead than idealistically. Alas, so many people cannot stand harsh truths.