I agree many women in real life are good persons and there's no "gender war" with them. I meet many women IRL and I get along fine with most of them. :-)

The problem I was pointing out is not with women in general, but about feminism. And it's not just rabid feminists online; its negative influence works IRL as well. That kind of feminism deepens the gender war, with its messages of "Men are bad", "Women are always the victim", and its portrayal of men (most of whom are good persons, but feminism only talks about the worst ones).

Most feminism is sexist and one-sided (women first and foremost); more and more man are noticing this, and that's why they are rejecting feminism so-called "equality" (that is far from it).

Of course not all feminists are like that; but the majority seem that way.