I assume you're in good faith but I think you're naive. You may be "whole", but lots of men have been "neutered" - because manliness is now seen as "bad".

Besides, you're ignoring all the societal changes (pushed by feminism) where men have become "losers", e.g.:

- In case of pregnancy, the woman has all the rights and the man has zero.

- Women have the right to vote and equal pay, but it's still only the men who go to die in a war.

- Women live longer but, in many countries, they can retire sooner than men.

- In case of domestic violence, most of the time is assumed that the man is the aggressor and the woman the victim (good luck in proving the opposite - see the Johnny Depp case). This despite domestic violence being often acted by the woman (close to 40-50% of cases). Etc.

(of course I'm talking about the West)

In theory, feminism is about equality. In practice, it's completely one-sided and all in favor of women only. This is proven by lots of data and research.

But most people still believe that "feminism is a force for good" because feminism's propaganda is everywhere and spread by most media. Wake up.