I believe many women have a fantasy about a “Submissive Alpha”: a man who’s a full Alpha about life, the world and sex… but is loving and caring about her, ready to do anything to make her happy.

Alas, you can’t eat your cake and have it too. ;-)

Alpha and Submissive are opposites, so one can only be the former OR the latter (or being in a midpoint, not fully one or the other).