I didn't respond to your "logic" because you aren't being logical. You're spouting prejudices, projections and some "shadows" of yours. You have been triggered and your gut is talking, not your logical mind.
In these cases there cannot be a rational communication, because you would not be listening: your thinking is possessed by your inner "demons". It would be like talking with a brick wall. I experienced this for many years, and then I realized it’s pointless even trying.
That’s the problem with many feminists: they’re actually neurotic, but they believe to be the only sane person in the room. There’s no arguing with such people.