In my observations, women like you are quite rare - alas :-)

Maybe the Dr. never met one, or she thinks the number is so tiny to be statistically not relevant.

I don't think she meant to be "snarky"; it's just that women going around ready for sex is mostly a porn fantasy, and men believing that's the norm can be harmful. Hence she pointed out that.

Lastly, I sincerely envy your partner(s) :-)