"Isn't important anyway"? :-o

I can't wrap my head around this attitude. I mean, it's literally a matter of life or death. Whatever position you're on, it's significant. And a sign of one's inner values.

Maybe those men don't care about values... or maybe being rejected was so hurtful for them, to haze their judgment.

Anyway, I call those kind of situations "natural selection": if our values are not compatible, no point in wasting each other time. Hence, "Good night and good luck!" ;-)