Kudos for writing about the complexity around these themes.

Sexuality, reproduction, children, abortion and adoption are complex - and different - areas, and they always will be. Conflating one of them with others adds just confusion and misunderstandings.

Those areas are connected, sure, but they are also independent. To really understand them, and to find the better solutions (or sometimes the less-worse ones), we need to consider each one on its own, and then maybe also how they interconnect with each other.

Most of the time, simple solutions to complex issues are the product of either naive minds or propaganda; or from someone selling their own agenda.