> "look at how many people clap for and highlight my stories."
Most likely, that's because you're in an "echo chamber".
I've read the comments on your stories: most are from women as angry and bitter (and unhappy) as yourself. That doesn't mean you're right: it means it's a "cult-like" group of similar people. Even the craziest ones can find followers; that doesn't make them sane.
If your viewpoint was realistic and balanced, you would receive positive feedback from all kinds of people - not from just one kind.
Instead, I see that when you comment on other people's stories (the ones with a wide and varied audience, e.g. the articles from therapist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten — AKA Dr. Psych Mom), you barely receive any clap. Outside of your echo chamber, very few people agree with you.