Lots of really good points, but I disagree with this one:

> "it’s not the fault of women."

Unless we're talking about naive teenagers, a woman should learn to tell the good men from the bad ones, the "relationship material" from the player. If it's YOUR relationship, it's YOUR responsibility to make a good choice.

As they say, "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me!" ;-)

IMO, the problem is most women pursue attraction, not compatibility. They are enchanted by the best-looking, the affluent, the charming ones - and usually ignore the "average looking but good" men.

Good men should improve their game, sure. But, at the same time, women who want good relationships (and not just an exciting date) should realize that attraction is often misleading.