> "Many young women marry guys who are emotionally unavailable because they have low self-esteem."

Also, many men are attracted to "cold" or emotionally distant women for the same reasons. They often weren't loved (enough), so being ignored or treated poorly or kept at a distance feels "familiar" to them.

Of course most of the time, in the long run this will spell disaster for the relationship.

Just in case someone thinks this works for one gender only. ;-)