> "Men need to learn emotional intelligence"

That would surely be helpful. Most men I know are really lacking in that sense.

Yet, even if they did it, that would not help those who are ignored by women. Emotional intelligence does not make a man attractive (maybe it works for you, but then you're the exception and not the rule). Just like men, most women get interested in someone because of attraction.

Emotional intelligence is useful within a relationship, but for the men who cannot even find a relationship, it would not help.

Yours looks like a typical female POW, but you seem not knowing how it works for a male.