> "Some women are very unhealthy and keep their husbands awake for hours and hours many days out of the week"

Yeah, I was one. My partner needed to talk A LOT, even by night, and even when I asked "Please, I need to sleep" she often went on and on talking (it's likely she had BPD). And I patiently listened to her, for hours.

But then what happened? She lost interest in sex, and she was all about "I don't feel like it anymore". Sure, and I didn't feel like listening to you for hours... and yet I did it; and you would be all "You don't love me enough!" if I didn't.

Yes Dr., I see a huge double standard here.