Thanks for replying in a civil manner, despite your pessimism towards men.
> "Some men are listening, others are set in their ways."
The same can be said for women. The problem is not in one gender, it's in some people in both genders. Evil has no gender - even if you think it has.
> "I actually don't believe we can build a "bridge between the genders". "
Then what's the point of talking...?
Anyway, I do believe it, and I devote time to that goal. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't, but I think it's worth it.
I'm sorry for your negative stance towards men: for you, I mean. I assume you have your reasons, but it limits you.
Personally, I've come to believe that a person being good or bad has nothing to do with its gender, and everything to do with its character.
Take care.