The more I read Dr. Psych Mom's articles like this, and the more I come to think marriage is a fool's errand for a man.

The chance to have a healthy, happy, loving and sexually satisfying (*) relationship after several years seems really small. And it sounds like the husband has to put way more effort to adapt to the wife than vice-versa.

(*) Keep in mind that most men do not feel loved without physical affection.