> the power of sexual chemistry to scare a man away

BS.

Sexual chemistry is a powerful "glue" in relationships, regardless of gender. I bet he wasn't scared at all; I bet he totally enjoyed himself.

IMO, you were just "one of many" women. He was a highly desirable man, so he just didn't need to choose a woman; he could always find a new one.

That's the problem when a woman chooses a "Prince Charming" or something (the Alpha, the handsomest, the sexiest, the “top dog”): lots of women want the same man, so he can do whatever he wants.

- The female dream is having a "Prince Charming" and he will want only her.

- The reality is that a "Prince Charming" would rather have a "harem".