> "The problem is the infuriatingly unfair double-standard"

I think those huge double standards will be, in the long run, the demise of modern feminism.

One can't shout "Equality!" and using double standards all the time: in the end it will lose any credibility.

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IMHO, poking fun at the opposite sex is ok when done with grace and without malice. "We are not laughing at you, we are laughing with you". Meow! :-)