> "The reality is many men want a fantasy girl."
I'd say that true for many women as well - or even for most of them.
After all, which gender cultivates the "Prince Charming" romantic myth? Men have no equivalent.
Sure, some men are looking for a perfect woman, and they get their heart broken this way.
But, on average, it's women - much more than men - who have long lists of requirements and are highly selective: "Stay single until you meet a guy who does these 70 things"
The "Men are hard to please" myth is another feminist lie: it's rather quite the opposite, it's the women (another proof: divorce is wanted by women in over 2/3 of cases).