> "Would it be worth giving every single man a “fair chance” if it meant that you could end up being one of the 20% of women who have been raped…or worse?"

Of course sometimes that's the thing in the woman's mind, but I think most of the time her selectivity is more about: attraction, personality, chemistry, emotional reaction. Not safety.

She finds or feels something is "off" or unlike what she wants, and - voilà - the channel is closed. After all, nowadays most women have lots of suitors to choose from, so they "Next" easily.

I think you fell for the feminists lie about the number of sexual assaults; it's actually way less than they say.