You didn't reply to me question, so I assume I was right; you know the difference.

> "And I'm pretty sure most women are not saying that to bait you."

I didn't say it's intentional; it may be unconscious.

> "I literally thought men understood that."

No, because men and women are different, and most of them don't know the differences. Assuming the opposite sex works the same way you do, it's the main reason we have so frequent arguing and conflicts.

> "not pin down the dancer and have sex right now in front of everyone! Or does it?"

Oh boy! Given the opportunity, most men would have sex with the lap dancer!

But wait, there's more: most men would gladly have sex with any beautiful woman they cross on the street, if at all possible; and nothing would make them happier. We're funny like that. ;-)

Also, this likely applies to your boyfriends or husband as well.

If you didn't know that already, it means you don't know men at all.