You had me at "Boobs" ;-D

> "my neighbor is always just a leer away and it dictates the way I dress my body"

But, seriously, this guy has only the power YOU allow him to have over you.

- If I'm afraid about others' judgment, I'm giving them power over me.

- If I don't give a flying damn abut their judgment, I'm free from their influence. I'm giving them no power anymore.

You cannot change the world. You cannot change 8 billions individuals. But you can always change the way you hold them in your mind.