You make several assumptions about me, mostly wrong.

- I'm not monogamous (I'm rather poly)

- I know for sure our species is not naturally monogamous.

But, unlike yourself, I don't take myself as an example. I know when I'm part of a tiny minority (I'm also a kinkster), and I do not expect the majority to adapt to my unusual views.

Everyone has a voice, sure, but IMO your fault was lecturing the majority (telling them how they should behave), not just expressing your POV. There's a difference.