Your comment seem stemming from a place of hurt, bitterness and anger. Thus I don't think anything I can write rationally would be apt.

I'm sorry for your pain, but perhaps you could learn to tell the "good men" (who don't do the thing you're complaining about) from the others - and avoid the latter.

E.g. I often disagree with the author, but I esteem her, and that's why I argue with her. OTOH, with someone who I deem a moron, I would not have wasted my words.

I never said ALL women are "low value"... but some are, so I avoid them.