Your points are all fine and dandy… as long as that works for the other party too (i.e., the man you’re dating).
Not shaving, not grooming, not spending a long time in the bathroom… count me in! But are you ok with HIM doing the same? :-)
You know, I’m 100% for freedom and being authentic and be yourself and all that… but sometimes I see women with double standards, who want to be free and not obliging, but they still want the man to perform and behave according to their desires.
Hope you’re not that kind of (entitled) woman ;-)