You're welcome :-) I'm always willing to share real data that opposes widespread (and false) stereotypes. I've been studying this stuff for a long time.

I used dating sites as an example, just because it easily produces useful objective data; real life examples are harder to come by in great numbers. But nowadays, online dating is so widespread that it's close to real life behavior.

Regarding your own perspective, of course anybody is different. But it's likely you're the exception rather than the rule...

For example, I don't think a man's income is high in your priorities; and yet, it is in most women's:

https://theblog.okcupid.com/the-big-lies-people-tell-in-online-dating-a9e3990d6ae2

Check the "How many messages a man get, by age & income" section and graph: men with declared income of less than 40,000$ get practically zero messages (red).

From your comments on marriages, it sounds like you learnt from your experiences. Alas, not everybody does. ;-)